How does a Dom/me go about helping and teaching a sub t to be comfortable being themselves as submissives?
Category: Dear Lani
Dear Lani: Dominant Training
A lot of stories talk about Doms getting trained formally by other Doms. What does formal training mean and what does it look like?
Dear Lani: Prep and Aftercare
What is really involved in preparing for a scene and aftercare look like? What do I have to know as a Dom?
Dear Lani: Fetish Gear
What do I wear to a fetish event, like a convention or even a fetish club night?
Dear Lani: On Conventions (Part 2)
What is a fetish or kink convention really like? What can I expect if I go to one?
Dear Lani: On Conventions (Part 1)
What is a fetish or kink convention really like? What can I expect if I go to one?
Dear Lani: Toy and Games
What are your favourite toys and things to do during scenes?
Dear Lani: Heels training
One of the first things Luna notes is Lani’s impossible heels. How does one go about being able to walk with such heels?
Dear Lani: Finding a good Dom/me
Where and how do you find a good Dom/me?
Dear Lani: Detecting a sub
How do you go about figuring out if someone is a sub, especially when you first meet them?