Dear Lani

Your bi-weekly kinks and fetish-related advice column

  • Dear Lani: Stigmas around BDSM
    BDSM seems a lot more popular these days. Is there still stigma associated with being in the lifestyle? Doesn’t BDSM conflict with modern feminism and the ideas of equality?

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I am a storyteller and a romantic at heart.

I write steamy romantic stories that examine social norms and challenge conventional tropes of the genre.