Dear Lani

Your bi-weekly kinks and fetish-related advice column

  • Dear Lani: Hard and Soft Lines
    I hear sometimes in reference to scenes and kinks, hard and soft lines? How are those lines defined and how to find out someone’s lines? What’s the difference in them and how do you make sure you don’t jump from one to the other during play?

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I write steamy romantic stories that examine social norms and challenge conventional tropes of the genre.