Your bi-weekly kinks and fetish-related advice column
- Dear Lani: Stigmas around BDSM
BDSM seems a lot more popular these days. Is there still stigma associated with being in the lifestyle? Doesn’t BDSM conflict with modern feminism and the ideas of equality?
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I write steamy romantic stories that examine social norms and challenge conventional tropes of the genre.